Being a military caregiver means that I am constantly reshaping my role.
At what moment did you realize you were a military caregiver?
I am a psychologist so I recognized his symptoms early on. He had trouble sleeping, suffered from severe depression, and avoided large crowds. I soon realized that being a military caregiver was a job I could never clock out from, so I developed a safety plan for home and encouraged my husband to participate in mental health services at the VA.
What are your current challenges as a caregiver?
The death of our youngest child triggered my husband’s post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), so his symptoms now are worse than they once were. I rely on my faith and spirituality to deal with the changes that happen so rapidly.
What advice do you wish you had when you first became a military caregiver?
There are resources out there for you and your wounded warrior—use them! If he won’t apply for them, you must do it.
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My Story
Kristi cares for her husband, Hal, who suffers from both visible and invisible wounds after being in an ambush attack with his battle buddies in Iraq. It took a long time for him to accept treatment.
As a Dole Fellow, she brings her experience as a motivational speaker, trainer, and presenter on topics associated with self-care and mental health.
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